Worried about risk or symptoms
Noticing a change in your body, or worrying about your risk, is a good reason to talk to a doctor — not a reason to panic. Getting checked is a sign of strength, not fear.
What to focus on first
The most useful first step is usually to see a doctor and describe what you have noticed. Write it down before you go, so you don't forget anything that matters.
Steps you can take now
- Take someone with you to appointments — a second person hears what you might miss.
- Write your questions down before you go, and take notes during.
- Ask for copies of your test results and reports, and keep them in one place.
- You are allowed to ask for time to think, and to ask for a second opinion.
Guides for this stage
Guides are being prepared
Reviewed guides for this stage will appear here as they are published.
A practical checklist
Printable checklists to take to your appointments are being prepared.
Questions to ask your doctor
- What does this mean, in plain language?
- What are my options, and which do you recommend for me — and why?
- What are the benefits and risks of each option?
- What is this likely to cost, and what financial support is available?
- Who do I contact if I have a question later?
Urgent advice: If you are worried that something is seriously wrong
Do not wait. Contact your doctor, or go to your nearest hospital. Trust your instinct — it is always better to be checked.
There is a seat for you.
You do not have to face this alone, or in silence. Talk to men and families who have been where you are.