Living with advanced or recurrent cancer
When cancer is advanced, or has come back, the questions change. Support matters more than ever — for you, and for the people close to you.
What to focus on first
The focus is often on living as well as possible, and on support. Ask your care team what to expect, and lean on people who understand what this is like.
Steps you can take now
- Take someone with you to appointments — a second person hears what you might miss.
- Write your questions down before you go, and take notes during.
- Ask for copies of your test results and reports, and keep them in one place.
- You are allowed to ask for time to think, and to ask for a second opinion.
Guides for this stage
Guides are being prepared
Reviewed guides for this stage will appear here as they are published.
A practical checklist
Printable checklists to take to your appointments are being prepared.
Questions to ask your doctor
- What does this mean, in plain language?
- What are my options, and which do you recommend for me — and why?
- What are the benefits and risks of each option?
- What is this likely to cost, and what financial support is available?
- Who do I contact if I have a question later?
Urgent advice: If you are worried that something is seriously wrong
Do not wait. Contact your doctor, or go to your nearest hospital. Trust your instinct — it is always better to be checked.
There is a seat for you.
You do not have to face this alone, or in silence. Talk to men and families who have been where you are.